Hinderances to Disciplines

Overcome Hinderances

Over the past few weeks we have been looking at the disciplines for success. These are some of the things that you need in your life in order to have success in reaching your goals. Each of these are in response the things that hinder us in our growth.

In this post I listed seven things that can hinder you in achieving your goals. I was thinking of things in myself and things that I have learned from listening to others.

Last year I coached a few friends on getting things done. I enjoyed cheering them on and watching them succeed. I began to realise that in order to truly be successful you need to deal with the heart issues. If you do not deal with those issues, then it doesn’t matter what you true you will be struggling. The perfect planner won’t help completely. The wonderful schedule will leave you frustrated. The organised house will only satisfy you for so long. You need to deal with heart issues.

How do you know what is hindering you?

The easy answer is not really easy but here it is — ask God to search your heart and show you.

Pray asking God to show you the things that are hindering you. Pray Psalm 139:23 for yourself. “Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts.”

Be still and listen. That can be the difficult part for me. My suggestion is to have a blank piece of paper so you can write what you are thinking and what God is telling you.

Be honest with yourself and with God. It might hurt to look in your heart but it will help you grow.

If you are still struggling, knowing the issues that are hindering you, talk with someone who knows you and will be honest with you. Others can often see things that we are blind to.

You might find other hinderances then the ones I listed. That is fine. You know yourself. Take those and then look at what needs to be done so they are not a hinderance.

When you begin to understand the hinderances, then you can begin to address those issues and grow in disciplines for success.

Disciplines for Success

Disciplines for Success

Each week for the past few weeks I have listed a discipline for success. The list of disciplines is below with links to the posts that give you more to help you understand the discipline and how it can help you.

Humility

Diligence

Self-denial

Grateful

Generous Living

Faith

Contentment

So let’s review these disciplines in our own lives. How do you rate yourself in each of these? Which discipline is the most difficult? Can you think of some ways that you could grow in one of these disciplines?

While this might be a challenging topic, I trust that it encourages you to grow.

“And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9

Keep going. Keep growing.

What verse encourages you to address these hinderances and grow in disciplines for success?

The foundation for faithfulness

If I am honest with myself, I will admit that I do not always follow through with my intentions. I will also admit that I do not finish everything that I begin. (My stack of unfinished sewing projects is proof of that point.) I need something besides myself as my example of faithfulness. I am sure if you are honest with yourself, you would say the same thing. What is the foundation of faithfulness?

Foundation for Faithfulness

God is our foundation of faithfulness.

So if I say what verse speaks of God’s faithfulness? I am guessing that the majority would quickly turn to Lamentations 3:23. That’s what I did except instead of reading just verses 22 and 23 I went to the beginning of the chapter.

The author, likely Jeremiah, describes the situation using words like, has seen affliction (verse 1),  brought me into darkness without any light; (verse 2) my flesh and skin waste away (verse 4), and besieged, bitterness and tributlation (verse 5). That continues all the way to verse 21, “But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope.”

Hope in the midst of all those things listed comes from the steadfast love of the Lord and his mercies. God’s faithfulness is shown in his steadfast love and his mercy.

God is the foundation of faithfulness. It is not me trying and believing I can do it if I try hard enough. God is the foundation. He is the example of faithfulness.

It is helpful knowing that God is our foundation but how about an example of an individual.

David’s Example

I think we can learn a lot about a person by listening to what they have to say about their parents. Listen to what Solomon says in I Kings 3:6, “You have shown great and steadfast love to your servant David my father, because he walked before you in faithfulness, in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart towards you.”

Did you see what he said about his father? David walked in faithfulness. We know that David was king, he feared the Lord, he praised the Lord but there was that time when he was not faithful. Remember Bathsheba.

That gives me hope and encourages me. David sinned and yet he is considered faithful. When Nathan confronts David about his sin, David’s response is “I have sinned against the Lord.” (2 Samual 12:13).

So when you sin, when you are not faithful, acknowledge it and recognise that it is against the Lord. Confess your sin. Know that God will forgive you.

We are called to be faithful. That means following through with what we said we would do and finishing what we begin. This is not always easy but God is our example and he gives us strength.

Well done though good and faithful servant.

Here are some reflection questions to help you think about this. 

How does understanding God’s faithfulness help you be faithful?

Are there areas in your life that God is calling you to be faithful even when it is hard?

Do you have areas that you are failing in being faithful? Confess this to God.

This is part of the study on faithfulness.

Special Needs – Biblical Basis

Chats over coffee - Special Needs

I have been reading and thinking about Special Needs, parenting and the church. Friday is chats over coffee, which is a time that I write on a more personal note. So I share my thoughts or what is happening. I want it to be a time when you get to know me a bit more.

I joined the special needs parents club 14 years ago. It wasn’t a club that I planned to join but I have to say that the people I have met have been wonderful, caring, encouraging, and supportive.

I have been thinking and beginning to put down on paper thoughts about Special Needs from the Bible. So where do we begin when we think about this topic. We begin in the beginning.

Special Needs in the Beginning

God created man in the image of God, Imago Dei. Understanding that gives value to each life. It doesn’t matter the special needs each life is valuable. (Genesis 1:27)

Life was perfect but not for long. The Fall changed everything and disease and brokenness entered the world. (Genesis 3) We live in a fallen world full of disease, disobedience, and death. Special needs remind us that we are living in a broken world. But it was into the broken world that Jesus came as a man to redeem us. Jesus came for the broken.

That gives a broad picture but what about the individual?

Special Needs in an Individual

The picture in Psalm 139:13-16 is of knitting and putting together each of our parts. So God knows the extra chromosomes or the parts that are not the way they should be. God has created each individual. I love the response. It is one of praise. It calls us to worship. (I am seeing that word quite a bit this year — Worship in the Waiting and I no longer choose Joy.)

The words that the Lord said to Jeremiah remind us that God is the creator of each individual. God knows each of us. “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.” Jeremiah 1:5 (ESV)

Remember when Moses gives his reasons to the Lord saying that he is not eloquent. The Lord’s response reminds us that he is the creator even of these special needs. “Who has made man’s mouth? Who makes him mute, or deaf, or seeing, or blind? Is it not I, the Lord.” Exodus 4:12. (ESV) I find the next bit comforting “No therefore go, and I will be with your mouth and teach you what you shall speak.” Exodus 4:13 (ESV). That applies to us today. God will go with us and teach us.

How does all this help me as a Special Needs parents?

I find understanding in remembering that we are each made in God’s image. That makes life valuable.

I am reminded that we live in a broken world. The disease and disability is a reminder of The Fall and the need that we have for a Saviour.

I find comfort in knowing that God is sovereign in this. He created each individual and knows the needs that they might have.

My belief in God’s sovereignty is what carried me through the early days of Special Needs parenting. We were living in Asia on the other side of the world from family. Miss K needed one surgery within days of birth and as she healed from that surgery we learned that she needed another operation and this one open heart surgery. Just before heart surgery we received the chromosome study and learned Miss K had Trisomy 21. Was this a surprise to God? Did he forget where we were living? Did he know that she would need two operations and the expense of those? My greatest comfort during that time was knowing that God is sovereign. He knew all this and he cares for Miss K and us.

Biblical basis for special needs

Disabilities can overwhelm us but even more God should overwhelm us with his compassion and power.

What forms your basis for understanding special needs in the Bible? Next week I will share some of what I have learned reading through the gospels and seeing Jesus interactions reaching the broken.

Contentment – Discipline for Success

Contentment, will that really help me succeed? I thought that it was discontentment that moved  me to set the goal and now you are saying that contentment is going to help me be successful. Are those the thoughts running through your mind? They are running through mine. Stay with me and let’s work through this and see how contentment can be a discipline for success.

Contentment

Discontentment is one of the things that can hinder you from reaching your goals. To overcome this hinderance we need contentment.

What is contentment?

In his book The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment, Puritan author, Jeremiah Burroughs defines it,”Christian contentment is that sweet, inward, quiet, gracious frame of spirit, which freely submits to and delights in God’s wise and fatherly disposal in every condition.”

Contentment comes from within. It is the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives. It comes by fixing our eyes on Christ and seeing all that Christ has done for us.

Contentment is quiet. It is seen through the actions of a person and not from their words. The person that quietly goes through life enjoying all they have and seeing it as blessings from God.

Contented people understand that what they have comes from God. So they are willing to give graciously to those around them. They understand that God will meet their needs.

Contentment submits to a loving father who is caring for us. When we realise that we have a perfect heavenly father who is caring for us, contentment and praise should flow from our lives.

“That to be well skilled in the mystery of Christian contentment is the duty, glory and excellence of a Christian.” Jeremiah Burroughs

You can learn to be content.

That is what Paul writes in Philippians 4:11, “Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content” How do you learn this?

Paul is striving to know God. Philippians 3:7-11 Paul writes that, “I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord” (verse 8), Then in verse 10 he writes “that I may know him and the power of his resurrection . . .” When we strive to know God, the things around us will mean little to us. We will grow in contentment as we realise how God loves us.

Paul is striving toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. He is fixing his eyes on eternity. When we do that the things of this world will lose their appeal. We have a confidence that God will work with all that we have.

Discipline of contentment

How does this help achieve our goals?

We will be satisfied with what God has given us. Instead of complaining about what we don’t have and how that is hindering us we will be thankful and work with what we have.

We know that God has placed us in the circumstances that he wants. We will stop comparing our situations and circumstances with those around.  Understand that God has sovereignly arranged the details of our life. So glorify him.

Maybe you were discontented with the way things were and so you decided to make a change. Is that discontentment in something you have control over and can change? If so use that to make a goal but if the discontentment is in the circumstances that God has placed in your life. Learn to be content.

Do you struggle with discontentment? Discipline yourself to be content.

Fruit of the Spirit – Faithfulness

As we begin a new month, we will continue looking at a Fruit of the Spirit. This month is Faithfulness. The ESV, NIV, and NASB all use the term faithfulness. The KJV uses the term faith. The Greek word is πίστις pistis which means faith, faithfulness. So I think either word can be used. I think both words have slightly different meanings in English. I will write a bit about faith in a later post.

A Fruitful Year Faithfulness

What is faithfulness?

The Zondervan Compact Bible Dictionary defines faithfulness, “an attribute both of God and man, implying loyalty, constancy, and freedom from arbitrariness or fickleness.”

Each of the attributes and character qualities in the Fruit of the Spirit are attributes of God. The same can be said for faithfulness. God is faithful. (2 Corinthians 1:18) God has demonstrated this to us and shown us how to display that in our lives. One way that God has shown his faithfulness to us by keeping his promises.

Pause and think about how God shows us his faithfulness. He displays it by keeping his promises. What promises has God made? How has he kept the promises? Can you see in the Bible how he is faithful?

God has made covenants with his people. God’s covenant with Noah was that he would not curse the ground again or strike down everything living creature. (Genesis 8:21) But keep reading God says that “seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night shall not cease.” (Genesis 8:22) That is a promise that we see throughout the year with the seasons but also each day. God keeps his promises.

Characteristics of Faithfulness:

The characteristics of faithfulness include loyalty, constancy, and freedom from arbitrariness or fickleness.

Who or what are we to be loyal to? We are to be faithful to what God has called us to do. We are to be loyal in our relationships with others. If we are to be faithful to what God has called us to do, we must be certain that we know what it is that God has called us to do. It is going to be different for each of us and will be different at different times in our lives. God calls us to be faithful.

What does constancy have to do with faithfulness? We need to keep going what we are called to do no matter what happens around us. This is where faithfulness continues even when we don’t see the results that we want. Our goal should be to be faithful to what God has called us to do. 

Freedom from arbitrariness or fickleness means that it is not based on our feelings but on what we are to be doing. Now, I will admit that I looked up the word arbitrariness. Maybe you know the meaning but if you don’t I will save you have to look it up. Arbitrariness means “The quality of being based on random choice or personal whim, rather than any reason or system” from Oxford Dictionaries. This removes the exceptions that we want to put in. I will be faithful except fill in the blank. Faithfulness is not based on our feelings, but on what God has called us to do.

Faithfulness Requires Action

Faithfulness requires action. In Matthew 25:14-30 Jesus tells the parable of the talents. In this parable the manager gives talents to the servants. The talents are given according to the servants abilities. The servants then had to decide how they would faithfully serve the master. The ones that heard, “well done, good and faithful servant” were the ones who had action.

Are you ready to put action into your faithfulness?

Other posts about A Fruitful Year can be found here — love, joy, peace, patience, goodness,

 

July Review

It is hard to believe that it is the end of July. Where has the month gone? Where has the year gone? Here is a quick review of what happened in July.

Miss K finished school and is enjoying her summer break. The weeks leading up to the end of school were challenging as we waiting to find out where she would have a school placement for autumn. (I won’t go into all the details but most of this has to do with her special needs and the process here.) She has a place at the local secondary school and we are pleased with the schedule that they have put together for her. It is a mix of classes with SEN and mainstream. We are thankful to know where she will be attending in the autumn. Now on my list of things to do is buy uniforms.

Miss K turned 14. Her birthday always is a time to pause and reflect on how God has sustained her life.  She is all about birthdays and one of her favourite things to watch in YouTube is birthday parties. We had a party with the girls from her class.

July Miss K turns 14

My son and I took a trip to Scotland. We rode the train and visited some friends. It was a nice getaway and fun to see some new parts of the UK and a fun time with my son.

July Review Loch Lomond

2018 Goals

My goals for 2018 are listed here. I also have them written in my planner and will add notes of things that I have done towards those goals.

Both kids were at camp the same weekend. That has never happened so we took advantage of that and planned tourist. When I told Miss K what we were doing she said, “that sounds boring” which was exactly why we were doing it when they were at camp. We enjoyed a day out in Lincoln. We knew that it would be almost impossible to get Miss K to go on a Towers Tour so we did that. It involved quite a bit of climbing but then we had a wonderful view of the city. That falls under the goal of relationship with my husband.

July Review Lincoln

One of my goals for July was to consistently blog three times a week. I have copied some posts from my old blog. Some of the posts that I copied this month were a number of posts about My Asia Journey. I share those just so you can learn a bit more about me. You can find Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4.

I finished a fun sewing project that I had been working on for a long time. It took some time to collect the selvages. I made a mug rug with fabric selvages. I like the way it looks and have begun collecting selvages for my next selvage project.

Selvage Mug Rug

A few trips on the train gave me extra reading time. I finished Why We Sleep, Among the Poppies, which is a Christian Fiction set in World War 1, and Essentialism.

Two things I made in the Instant Pot this month that have changed my world. Okay, maybe that is a bit dramatic but changed my cooking. I made mashed potatoes and hard boiled eggs. I have to say both were easy.

Ponderings in July

Recently I discovered that a zero-waste store has opened nearby. That got me thinking about all the plastic that we use. I am slowly making changes. So I got out the bread maker and made bread — saves plastic bags. I made some felted soap to try that instead of liquid hand soap. Next on my list is making yogurt in the Instant Pot.

How was your July? What did you do? Any good book recommendations? I can always add a few more books to my to be read list.

July Review

Faith – Discipline for Success

What does faith have to do with achieving your goals? Why do I need faith to achieve my goals? Is faith a discipline?

Faith Discipline for Success

Fear is one of the heart issues that hinders us from achieving our goals. Fear can hold us back. It can paralyse us. We need to overcome fear to achieve our goals?

What fears do you have?

What does faith have to do with achieving your goals? If fear, holds us back then it is faith that overcomes fear. Faith is important for us to achieve our goals. We do need the right kind of faith. It is not the “I believe in myself and I can do it.” kind of faith. This is a faith in God, who he is and what he has called us to do.

Faith - Discipline for Success

What is Faith?

Faith is a belief. Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. (Hebrews 11:1) The faith that will overcome fears has at its foundation, God. With God as the foundation our goals should be what God is asking us to do. When we are confident that God is calling us to do, we have faith to step out and do those things.

Faith is an attitude. Do we have an attitude of believing God. Our attitude should be that we can do what God has called us to do. What attitude do you have towards your goals?

Faith is action. Faith is active it is doing. Read through Hebrews 11 and look at all the things that people are doing by faith. Abel offered, Enoch was taken up, Noah constructed, Abraham went out to a new place, and Moses was hidden. Keep reading the chapter and see what else happens. Faith can mean suffering. I think often we read through the list of all the “Heroes of faith” and forget to read verses 35-38.  In our suffering God is with us.

Why do I need faith to achieve my goals? Our faith gives us the right perspective about our goals. The goals we have really are not our goals but rather God’s goals. Our strength comes from God. The wisdom we need comes from God. This should give us encouragement as we work on our goals.

Is faith a discipline? Yes, it is a discipline. It is something that we need to be reminded of and work towards building and growing in faith. Faith does not come naturally and so for that reason it is a discipline.

Caleb had Faith

I love the story of Caleb. He is full of faith and full of action. Some people when they are old, just want to sit around but not Caleb. He had a goal; he wanted the hill country. Caleb had faith. Caleb was following the Lord. Because of his faith, knowing that he was following the Lord, he had no fears. (Joshua 14:6-15)

Do you have faith like Caleb? Are you ready to do the hard things? Are you following the Lord?

Faith moves people to action. Grow in the discipline of faith.

When Life is not Good

What do you do when life is not good? How do you respond? We live in a fallen world with the effects of sin all around. Life is not good all the time but God is good all the time.

I don’t know what “not so good” you are facing at this time. It might be divorce, cancer, disease, or something else. It might be tempting to despair but have hope.

When Life is not good, how do you respond?

How not to respond when life is not good.

Just walk away from God. When you do that you are treating God like a genie in a bottle. You didn’t get what you wanted so just walk away. God wants a relationship with us. Friends stay with friends even when it is not good. Walking away from God is not going to make things easier.

Grow bitter. Bitterness will destroy and even more. Don’t allow that anger at God to grow into bitterness. Growing bitter will be worse.

How to respond when life if not good

Draw near to God. Spend time reading the Bible. If you are struggling with where to read, read Psalms. So many of the Psalms were written when David was struggling. You will hear David crying out to God and often ending that remembering who God is.

Remember God’s promises. We have a promise keeping God. Read through the Bible looking at the promises that God makes and how he keeps those promises. One of my favourite books to read for this is Exodus. For 400 years the people were slaves. They were wondering does God keep his promises. He will keep his promises. Cling to his promises.

Talk to others. Share with others what you are going through. Be sure that it is someone who will point you to Jesus in all this. Depending on the situation it is fine to be guard in who you talk with.

Personally, I have known those times when life if not so good. My reason for sharing this is so you know that I write from our own experiences. I spent years waiting to get married. We had a child that needed two operations soon after birth and then infertility. We had visas denied giving uncertainty of where to live and minister. The joy of adoption faded into disappointment as we faced a failed adoption.

Looking back on some of those not so good times, I see God’s provision. Looking back I see God’s timing is perfect. Some of those I really don’t know the good that came from it. You know what, that is fine. I know that in all that God is good. I know that in all that God was with me.

Maybe you are at a point in life where things are good. Rejoice in that. Look around you and be a blessing to those who might now be in that same place. I remember when life at home was hard someone who I didn’t even really know had given us a meal. That was a blessing. Be willing to just listen.

Are you currently facing some not so good situations? How are you responding? How can I encourage or pray for you.

Book Review – Essentialism The Disciplined Pursuit of Less

I recently posted on my Facebook page that I had finished reading this book. For my benefit as well as yours I will just summarise a bit of the book, Essentialism The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. As I review this, I will point out things that agree with the Bible or maybe where it disagrees.

Essentialism

First impressions – The book was easy to read both in content and in font size, graphics, headings. Yes, the physical aspect of the book does play into how easy I find to read the book. It was easy to finish. Do you know what I mean? I started it and easily kept reading. It didn’t get stuck on a pile of books to finish in the next decade. I read the physical book with a highlighter in hand.

Getting this out of the way – My husband bought this book and gave it to me to read. He knows how much I enjoy reading and reading this type of books. The review, opinions, and thoughts here are my own. This is a secular book in the category of Business/psychology.

 What is Essentialism? 

“Essentialism is not about how to get more things done; it’s about how to get the right things done. It doesn’t mean just doing less for the sake of less either. It is about making the wisest possible investment of your time and energy in order to operate at your highest point of contribution by doing only what is essential.” (page 5)

What does it mean to do the right things? We live in a noisy world; meaning the media, people, friends, social media are all saying things. Maybe it is things that they are doing and we think we should do it. Maybe it is intentionally things that others want us to do. We need to know what God is calling us to be at this time.

Essentialism requires courage. We are going to do and be different than all the noise around us.   This is going to require discipline. That means that we will need to be intentional.

“The way of the Essentialist means living by design, not by default.” (page 7) How easily do we just go to default mode. It is often easy and doesn’t require much thinking. Essentialism is going to require courage and discipline. We need that to live by design.

“Essentialism is a disciplines, systematic approach for determining where our highest point of contribution lies, then making execution of those things almost effortless.” (page 7)

I made it to page 7 only 239 more pages to go. Don’t worry I won’t go into as much detail.

Principles of EssentialismFour Parts of Essentialism

The book has four parts: Essence, Explore, Eliminate, and Execute. Also throughout the book there are charts that showing the non-Essentialist and the Essentialist. I found the charts helpful to just show a summary of some of the differences.

The author talks a bit about priorities. The importance of priorities but also gives a bit about the word priorities. The word came to English in the 1400s and it was singular. There was only one priorities but it in 1900s it became plural. A word that means first or prior thing now has come to be multiple things. I think we really need to go back to the idea that priority is one word. My priority might change from one day to the next but it is the one thing that is important. You can’t do everything.

Essentialism involves choice. An essentialist says, “I choose to.” While the non-essentialist says, “I have to.” There is a big difference. You make the decision and you choose it.

Here are some quick take aways from the book.

Have time to think. Sit and think, evaluate. Have space in your life for this. The Bible talks about being still and listening to God. That is what this time should be in our lives. Do you have be still time in your day or week?

Sleep is important. That goes along with the book I read on that. An Essentialist understands the importance of sleep.

Live with intent. As a Christian, our intent should be to love God and glorify Him in all we do. If we keep that intent in the front of our thinking as we make decisions and live each day, our life and schedule will be different.

An Essentialist knows when to say, “yes” and when to say, “no”.  Just because someone asks you to do something, doesn’t mean you need to say yes.

Know when to stop even if the project isn’t finished. When I was homeschooling, it was easy to decide, I bought the curriculum, we started it, we will finish it but we should have stopped. It wasn’t working. Be willing to stop.

How will I put this into my life?

My quick answer is, “I am still thinking about that.” Any really that is true. I don’t have a boss and a job description so it is a bit more difficult to see how it could apply in my life.

It has made me consider my attitude so instead of saying, “I have to make lentil and barley stew for 50 people on Thursday.” I changed it to be, “I have an opportunity to make lentil and barley stew for 50 people on Thursday.”

I am still asking myself the question, “What is essential?”. This morning I was intentional in sitting and just listening to the Lord. I had to be disciplined to sit and be still. I have a page of thoughts. On one specific thing God said, “be faithful and leave the rest to me.”

“Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” Psalm 46:10 (ESV)

Are you trying to do too much? Do you need to learn principles of Essentialism in your life?

Generous Living – Discipline for Success

Generous Living

The message that the world tells us is all about me. Making sure that I get “my time”.  That is “my money” to spend. My goals and my plans. It is all about me. But that is not the way we are to live. As Christians,  we are to give, to be generous.  Our focus should be on others and not ourselves.

Christ has given us an example of giving and living generous. His interaction with the Samaritan woman was when he was tired and traveling but he spent the time with her. He gave his time to share the truth with her. We have an example of how to live generously.

Selfishness was listed as one of the things that will hinder us as we work to achieve our goals. Selfishness is thinking about yourself and putting yourself first.

Are you reading this and wondering how this could be? Maybe you are thinking, “I thought these were my goals and I am the one that is supposed to work on the goals so should I be selfish to get those goals done?”

Let’s talk through that.

Yes, while these are your goals hopefully as you were setting the goals you were praying and asking God to guide you. So these are not your goals. These are God’s goals for you. It might not look like it is much different but pause and thing about it. There is a big difference there. These goals are God’s goals for you.

When we get the mindset that our goals depend solely on our work, we are missing so much of what God has called us to do. Our work should be through the Lord and his work in us.

How does selfish hinder us?

One way this happens is when we are selfish, the focus is on us and not others. We want to accomplish the goal no matter what. We are focusing on what we want.

Generous Living Disciple for Success

 

Generous Living will overcome selfishness

Adding the word generous means more than giving. Generous has the idea of giving more and more. You know the generous helping of chocolate sauce versus the stingy dribble of chocolate sauce. Be generous in your living.

Be generous with your time. Have an attitude of valuing the person you are with. Listen to people, be genuinely interested in people.

Be generous with your resources. Are you willing to share and give to others from what you have? It is not just money but so many other ways that you can be generous.

Have a heart attitude of loving and giving others.

I will honestly say that I am not sure how God will use that generous living to help you reach your goals but I can say that generous living is pleasing to God. We are honouring and pleasing God when we are giving. (Proverbs 3:9)

As I look my goals for this year, a number of my goals are growing relationships with others. The one thing that will grow relationships is giving, both giving my time and my resources.

So how can you give this week? Maybe it is a meal, maybe it is a note saying you are thinking of that person. Strive to be generous to those around you.

Here are the other Disciplines for Success, gratefulself-denial, diligence, and humility.